Iāve been wrestling with something for a long time, and I want to share it with you candidly.
Over the past few years, weāve all sensed itāthat slow pull of the apps, the scroll that never ends, the way our attention is quietly siphoned away.
Johann Hari wrote in Stolen Focus, āthe algorithm has one driving principle: show you what keeps you looking.ā Not what builds you up. Not what roots you in hope. Just whatever keeps your eyes on the screen.
And when you step back and look at the big picture, it becomes clear: these platforms arenāt designed for our flourishing. Theyāre designed for our compulsion. And addiction does not look good on a child of God.
Facebookās own internal documents admitted that their recommendation engines push people toward division and extremism because thatās what keeps us scrolling. And as Cal Newport explains in Digital Minimalism, compulsive use isnāt a character flawāitās the business model.
(There’s one more reason I’ll share next week. It may persuade you, too.)
We werenāt made for this.
We were created for connectionāreal connection. The kind that listens, prays, encourages, blesses, and grows. The kind Scripture calls us to: āencourage one another and build each other up.ā
Social media promises that, but it only delivers the illusion of closeness. It gives us āsocial superpowersāārecognition without relationship, influence without effort, š connection without commitment š. And the truth is, that kind of ārelationship without effortā diminishes us as much as it delights us.
Thatās why Iāve made a decision.
Iām stepping away from Facebook and all algorithm-driven social media.
Because I canāt, in good conscience, keep drawing my own eyes, and my readersāyouāonto platforms that quietly undermine the very things weāre trying to cultivate: depth, thoughtfulness, encouragement, and real spiritual growth.
Jaron Lanier puts it bluntly: āIf you have the latitude to quit and donāt, you are only reinforcing the system that traps others.ā
I believe that.
And I believe if I have the freedom to choose a healthier, more intentional way to gather community, I should. I want to model a life where creativity, discipleship, imagination, and meaningful conversation donāt have to be filtered through an advertising engine.
A note about the podcast and YouTube.
Some of you have asked about the upcoming podcast and where it will live. Honestly, Iām still praying and thinking through how best to handle YouTube. It can be just as much of a time-suck as any other social platformābut itās also more content-driven, more intentional, and far less about endless scrolling.
Iām considering using it only as a way to host long-form teaching and podcast episodesāalmost like a library shelfārather than a place to engage in an endless feed. Iād love your thoughts on this as we walk forward together.
So hereās where Iām going.
Over the past year Iāve created a dedicated community spaceāoff social media, away from the algorithms, built intentionally for:
encouragement
Scripture and reflection
thought-provoking articles
memes that build up, not tear down
real conversation without Big Brother listening in
Itās called the ScrollKeepers Community, and itās hosted on Wyloāa simple, clean SAFE platform that doesnāt push ads, track your behavior, or try to turn your friendships into sales funnels.
And because stories shape us just as deeply as study, weāll talk about fiction tooāmine and othersāāboth in the podcast and as part of the same conversation about faith, imagination…
and the themes at the heart of the ScrollKeepers Bible Study system.
Itās ours. A place where we can think deeply again. A place where our attention belongs to God, not an algorithm. A place where we can truly build one another up.
Life is short. Our days are precious. And I donāt want to spend mine feeding an addiction-machine when I could be investing in youāand you in meāin ways that actually matter.
Thank you for walking this journey with me. Thank you for caring about the same things I care about: truth, hope, imagination, and the deep things of God.
Letās build something better together.
With gratitude and joy,
Darlene
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