If Jesus wrote a self-help book (Quora Question)

If Jesus wrote a self-help book, what would it be like?

Darlene Bocek· Author, The Last Noel

23 Jan 2021

Let’s look at his parables and find what conclusion can be found.

  1. He uses nature as a major element, meaning that the rules that are part of the natural world are, when analyzed correctly, symbolic of spiritual truths. Day or night. Living or dead. Fruitful or not.
  2. He uses human relationships (bosses, employees, neighbors, enemies) to show that human interactions are binary: good or bad. These can also be instructive as to we are good or not, right or wrong, kind or mean, selfish or self-sacrificing, God-loving, or self-seeking.
  3. He gives ultimatums. All or nothing. Either this or that. Either you love or you don’t. Either you’re on a rock or sand. Either you sell it all and buy or you can’t purchase. either you are salty or flavorless. All light or all darkness.
  4. He is also very clear about his own unique position: I am the shepherd…I am the light of the world…I am the way, the truth, the life… I am the door…before Abraham was, I am.

In consideration of these four details, his self help book would have this thesis:

Whenever you realize you are stuck and cannot go any further, whenever you realize you cannot be the good man or woman you know you should be, fall onto your knees, look up at the Cross, and from that angle you will see the door to escape your trap. “As Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up, that whoever believes in him may have eternal life.” (source)

Where Is God as the World Rages? (1 of 3)

Exodus 3:9 is a strange verse.

Where was God, those 400 years that “finally” he heard, finally he saw? Was he busy on the other end of the universe—perhaps evidence that we are not alone, not so very special? Evidence that God needed 400 years to take care of some alien race, just leaving Abraham’s offspring to do-without?

If you’re like me, you can’t fathom the idea of 400 years of God’s absence. Granted, in Genesis 15:13, he had told Abram (at the beginning of his journey of faith, before even having his name changed) that his offspring would have 400 years of servitude in another land.

But then, “what kind of God” would let 400 years of bad things go from bad to worse, and then “finally” show up and say, “yeah, here I am, I just heard. Sorry, guys. I’m here to fix things.”

It makes for a big puzzle. A Big Question. Why did he leave them alone?

As with any other verse in the Bible, you can’t take it out of context and define what it means alone. Every verse must be interpreted with all the other verses. This is Bible-understanding 101 lesson one.


Can we know where God is when he isn’t HERE?

God is Omnipresent and Omniscient

Where shall I go from your Spirit?
Or where shall I flee from your presence?

If I ascend to heaven, you are there!
If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there!

If I take the wings of the morning
and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea,

even there your hand shall lead me,
and your right hand shall hold me.

If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me,
and the light about me be night,”

even the darkness is not dark to you;
the night is bright as the day,
for darkness is as light with you.

Psalm 139:7-12

Oops. This idea seems to contradict Exodus 3:9! On the one hand, he tells Moses that “finally” he saw and heard. But here it says he is always seeing and hearing?

The answer is everywhere in Scripture. God was, in fact, not silent for those 400 years.

“Draw near to God and he will draw near to you.”

James 4:8

next: KNOWING GOD, part 2

Part One, Part Two, Part Three

Where Is God as the World Rages? (2 of 3)

KNOWING GOD, When He’s Silent

Knowing God and his ways… it’s not that he didn’t know or see the oppression. In fact, he had just said,

I know their sufferings.

Ex 3:7

Which matches Psalm 139’s first verses:

O Lord, you have searched me and known me!
You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
    you discern my thoughts from afar.
You search out my path and my lying down
    and are acquainted with all my ways.
Even before a word is on my tongue,
    behold, O Lord, you know it altogether.
You hem me in, behind and before,
    and lay your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me;
    it is high; I cannot attain it.

Psalm 139:1-6


He is acquainted with all our ways:

God had made a promise to Abraham, he would take care of Abraham’s offspring EVEN WHEN they would be in slavery for 400 years. It’s not that God was absent. It’s that they finally cried to God, not to the circumstances.

It took 400 years.


Does someone like Jethro show up as a priest of Midian if there is silence? Does someone like Moses’s mother have three kids who fear God, imperfectly, if there is silence? How about Caleb and Joshua. Is that a 40 day journey that makes them fear God and trust him?


2/12 of the spies who went into the promised land had faith. We see there that one-sixth of the mix was holy, a remnant of the faith. Like the reference to 144,000 in the book of Revelation. A small percentage of the whole.

But it was hard! In Egypt they had no Bible, fear of God was spread word-of-mouth. He remained faithful even when they almost had forgotten him. And with no Text, yet, it was very difficult to remember. Very challenging to believe.

In fact, the Egyptians knew they were “different,” and so easily complied and made things difficult for them. The Egyptians were happy to highlight the differences, enabling Israel to remain separate. To remember they were different. To remember where they had come from.

“Silence“ of God is a test, add to that the mass suffering— an act of measuring and weighing of a large group of people.

And yet can God ever be silent?

The OTHER 400 Years

Let’s look at another 400 years of “silence”: the 400 years of silence between Malachi and John the Baptist.

Similar to the remnant who had faith at the Exodus— how could Simeon or Anna wait, or how could Mary so faithfully agree to bear the Christ-child if there had been silence?

No, God was not silent. He was still working as the still-small voice, encouraging those who loved him, keeping them as a shepherd keeps his sheep.

After the Exile, in the Land of Judah, they had the OT law and prophets. But in them they “merely” had the hope of a Savior.

No, God was not silent.


But meanwhile, many PEOPLE were busy filling in the silent-like absence of God’s prophetic voice. People will do that. They’ll fill in the gap with their own ideas, not trying hard to hear a soft voice, they’ll speak louder, gather a crowd, create a platform, work on their brand. Get their name into The Who’s Who of Wise Men.

This is the conflict we see when the Pharisees meet John the Baptist, and then Christ. Not listening to God’s still-small voice, the Pharisees raised their own voices, vied for position as “wise and learned” and declared the wisdom of men in the name of God, untaught by God.

When God is seemingly silent we’ve got to beware of false voices.

“You do not love God,” Jesus informed the Pharisees and hypocrites, “or you would love me.” (John 8:42, 1 John 5:1).

And now I picture Anna kissing the cheek of Jesus… Simeon, lifting him up toward God in thanksgiving… Mary reflecting on the beauty of her child… Joseph rushing off to keep him safe. The Wise Men from the east rejoicing exceedingly with great joy, the shepherds rushing off to tell what God had done, the angels singing.

While Herod kills the infants. Two types of groups. Those who hear, those who hate.

Their love is not the result of nine months of a journey from the Annunciation to the Birth of Christ. This is the result of a still small voice drawing them forward into faith for a lifetime. They had been prepared for the moment they heard of the child.

A lifetime of listening to and listening for the “still small voice.”

And, behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the Lord; but the Lord was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the Lord was not in the earthquake: And after the earthquake a fire; but the Lord was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice.

1 Kings 19:11-12 (KJV)


God, later, shows why he acts the way he does. As they draw away, he allows -consequences to get such that they will eventually call on God, it will force them to choose. Do they still trust him? Do they still know him?

“The God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob had come down to deliver His people out of the hand of the Egyptians (Exodus 3:8). Although the affliction of Israel in Egypt proceeded from Pharaoh, yet was it also a fire which the Lord had kindled to purify His people and prepare it for its calling.

In the flame of the burning bush the Lord manifested Himself as the “jealous God, who visits the sins of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generations of them that hate Him, and showeth mercy unto thousands of them that love Him and keep His commandments” (Exodus 20:5; Deuteronomy 5:9-10), who cannot tolerate the worship of another god (Exodus 34:14), and whose anger burns against idolaters, to destroy them ”

Kiel and Delitzsch

So, of the people rescued from slavery, how many were true believers? How many were true followers?

Sure, they didn’t leave “with” their idols, not necessarily. However, while they waited for Moses, the waiting itself provided an opportunity for the Israelites to show their idolatrous hearts.

And sadly, even Aaron had no sword-to-die-on qualms about idols. Up to this point, only word of mouth had brought the message of God wanting his people to have no idols. At that very moment, God was revealing this to Moses. “It should be understood” from the faith of Abraham. Yet still there was no law—everyone did as he saw fit.

next: NOT SILENT (part 3)

Part One, Part Two, Part Three

Where Is God as the World Rages? (3 of 3)

So Where Was God?

God was where he always is, where he has been since Creation. He was above “the circle of the Earth,” keeping watch over the sons of man.

He was speaking to the few who would listen. And, he was increasing the heat to prove who was true, who was false. He was sorting and sifting the people. Architect as he is, he was building his Church, getting his People ready for eternity.

His Voice

Today, we are not starved for God’s word, as they were in Egypt. Having only the hope of a still-small voice, being faithful anyways. Hoping against hope in the promise of Rescue given to Abram hundreds of years earlier. No. We are not starved.

Neither are we like the post-exilic Israel, having the testimony of the Law and the Prophets, limited to hoping for a Savior, as were Simeon, Anna, and Mary. No. We don’t merely have hope.

We, in the modern age, have the still-small voice tied to a complete, thick, amazing, BOOK that teaches us WHO God is, and WHAT he has done through Christ. Our hope in Eternal Salvation has been bound in an historical event. We are not starved. We have a feast of Truth.

And from this feast we draw as we wait, now 2000 years. We wait. We are waiting. Here is a miracle! There are faithful people waiting for the promise. Because of the Resurrection, we wait patiently. Because we have a Book.

How to Hear His Voice

So if you think God is silent, draw close to God. Draw near to his Book, draw near to know him through that completely satisfying Book. You will hear his “still small voice” projected through amplifiers through his Book.

And what will you find about his Silence?

You will find…

Your suffering is not unseen by God. But it is a test. A “separation filter” that proves who has true faith and who has not. Your faith is proven as faith through those very trials. True Faith has evidence, the sure faith is a life lived in obedience ANYWAYS. Even in the silence.

We hear his voice as we draw near to him in humility and love, in trust of Christ’s salvation, in hope of his soon return.

Wrong Shall Be Right

Israel awaited rescue from slavery to Egypt.

The People of Judah awaited rescue from the oppression of Rome.

We await overall oppression from this world. Sickness, sorrow, death. We await freedom from this broken place. We await the return of Christ, who will make all things new. And as we wait, we have a job. Obedience.

This is why we see three images of Judgment Day in Scripture. We see

  1. Names on the Forehead of God’s people, by their faith
  2. Books Being Opened that Reveal Deeds of Mankind
  3. Sorting of Sheep and Goats by their Good deeds

Proven as Gold

Faith without works is dead. Trials and blessings prove this faith as surely as fire proves and sifts pure gold from the impurities disguised as gold.

The 400 years of silence, of slavery, of difficulties, were opportunities for God’s people to prove what they loved. A remnant remained faithful.

Are you remaining faithful, even when you think God is silent? Are you hearing his still small voice? He is clearly proclaiming himself to you in Scripture.

We have the promise of Christ that he will bear our burdens, he will draw near to us in comfort, he will never leave us.  He will draw near as we embrace him through his Word.

We only have to remain faithful in word and deed.

As Francis Schaeffer said, “God is here and he is not silent.”

Part One, Part Two, Part Three

Christian, Decide (Invitation only Serial Novel)

UPDATE: Jan 19, 2021: The first novel, spec mystery: You Shouldn’t Have Come, is up and running. We still have some spots left, if you’d like to join… After an unexpected second death, we’re moving into some strange twists….

serial novel book club

Write a Mystery/Sci-fi/or Strange serial novel with Us on MeWe.

Christian, Decide is book club, together writing an audience-voted choose your own speculative mystery/fantasy/sci-fi story.

In this time of separateness, it’s fun to pull together to make big things happen. This is a way to band together with other readers to CHOOSE YOUR OWN…ENDING. Gulp.

(If you’re not aware of it, MeWe is a Facebook alternative, and a lot of Christians are migrating there.)

In Search Of…

I’m collecting a list of the “best of the best” in dystopia and apocalyptic sci-fi stories.

Would you consider helping me out sharing your favorite books in this category?

To thank you for your time, I’ll enter you in a raffle to win this new release, The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes (A Hunger Games Prequel) by Suzanne Collins:

Thanks again for your participation!

Well, Christmas is VERY soon, and we are most likely going to be hunkering down for the season. Hopefully with “chestnuts roasting on an open fire.” 🎄

Here’s a BONUS extravaganza list of some fresh voices in fiction, sorted by genre.

THE LAST NOEL is in these collections, sometimes a bit mis-categorized 🤦‍♀️. (If you haven’t downloaded The Last Noel yet, this is a good chance. Click any link below).

I hope you find a new favorite.

By the way, to keep from getting lost…First, click as many links as you are interested in. It will open them in tabs. Then look through the linked pages. 



Christian Speculative Sci-Fi Fantasy Inspirational


Christian Fantasy Sci-Fi Speculative


Christian Clean Writing


Christian Romance

This next is a SALE, not freebies. But you should find some great books there–especially because Trunk of Scrolls is on this list.


(technically the sale is over as of Dec 1,
but you may find some are still available at the sale price)

Christian Religion Spirituality Inspirational Self-Help

🌍 SECULAR FICTION (including Christian authors) 🌎


Crime Mystery Psychological Thriller Suspense


Adventure Action Sci-Fi Horror


Paranormal Supernatural Ghosts Magical Realism Shifters


Contemporary Romance Holiday Sweet


Clean Holiday Noir Literary Fiction

Let me know if you find an especially good book.  And here’s a fire to read by.

God bless, and Merry Christmas!


Adventure and Magic and a Trunk!

book cover

I just came across this book, and I think it will prove to be a fantastic story. Take a look and let me know what you think. I’ve just started reading it. It kind of has the mood of Trunk of Scrolls. But with magic and (?) dwarves!

It’s FREE today, Dec 7. Maybe it will have a few more days afterwards. Enjoy!